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Individual therapy for adults ready to move forward.

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Barely Treading Water

This feeling has been around for months, possibly years. You try a new habit, it goes well for the first week or two, but then the same pattern returns.

Mindfulness is never quite enough. Therapists have come and gone, maybe over the course of years. And the question creeps in: will it ever get better, or is this just your life now?

If you are dealing with depression or anxiety, welcome.
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The Monkey Brain Won't Shut Up

Those anxiety spirals have become common. But you had one the other day that was different. It was worse.

You wonder if it was a panic attack? But it couldn’t be – you aren’t someone who has panic attacks. Now you worry it’ll happen again, so you start avoiding difficult situations.

If you are dealing with panic, welcome.
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Moving On After Divorce

You made it through, but just barely. Now you know about abuse or even narcissistic abuse cycles, and you wish you didn’t. How do you move forward from here?

You want to be a better partner, friend, and even parent, but you’re unsure of how to even start.

If you're trying to figure out how to move forward, welcome.
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Constantly on Edge

Always looking over your shoulder, even when your brain knows there is no threat. Everything feels a bit scary, like something will always go wrong. Social events require an escape plan.

Watching others go about their lives, you wonder how they are that carefree. There are people who get it, who have been through something. And there are people who don’t.

If the fallout from trauma has derailed your life, welcome.
The path forks here

You always have a choice to move forward.

Option One

Do Nothing

This feeling can continue for the next several years – or decades.

The panic can keep increasing. The issues can keep getting avoided. Bare survival can become the baseline.

Or…
Option Two

You Start Here

You can swim instead of treading water. The chatter can stop enough for you to be present in your life and enjoy it again.

Confidence in dating becomes possible. Moving on from that divorce is possible – so is becoming a better parent, friend, partner. You can stop looking over your shoulder for the next terrible thing to happen.

The other starts here.
Julia Selkie
Julia SelkieMA, LMHC

Hi, I'm Julia.

I bring my training and presence to wade into the chaos your life has become to sit with you and figure out what is going on. I don’t get scared of big emotions, and I create a judgment-free environment for you to bring yourself and your story.

What I offer is presence: a witness to your life and what has brought you to this place. Together, we bring compassion to your story, and then we find a way forward.

My primary specialization is Lifespan Integration, a body-based trauma therapy that clients often describe as like EMDR, only gentler. I also draw on tools suited to where you are: anxiety and panic, life after a difficult relationship, hypervigilance and trauma responses.

I have had my own journey and have been on both sides of this process. Please be aware that crying and swearing are not only options here – they are welcomed as we work through the tough things in your life.

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Therapy that isn't just talk therapy.

What My Clients Say

The person I was two years ago would not even recognize the person I am today, thanks largely to Julia and her use of Lifespan Integration. I've gone a year and a half since my last panic attack. As a result, I am now a better, more present mom, spouse, and friend. Thank you, Julia.

MClient of two years

After struggling to feel comfortable opening up, Julia truly made me feel seen. She always provided practical advice in times of need. I was never judged or belittled. Overall Julia has been the best therapist I've ever seen.

SClient

Working with Julia has completely changed my life. Her calm, welcoming demeanor makes me feel safe, and I know I can talk to her about literally anything. She is a light in the darkness.

AClient

Your story deserves to be witnessed.

If you are ready to move forward on your journey, let's begin. Clients report feeling more grounded and having better emotional regulation after working together.

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We'll talk. I'll answer your questions. We'll figure out together if this is the right match.